#5

The interaction I am writing about is with my husband. Over the last year we have had some serious, SERIOUS issues... ( i think you get the pictuer) anyways after everything happend and I came clean about everything we had it out and then once the crying was over we sat down outside next to the pool and just talked. We talked about everything, life, our kids, our pasts our families, school, work, the grass and trees EVERYTHING... This was the real turning point in our realitionship even tho we have been married for 4 years tomorrow. It was like getting to know each other all over and like starting fresh and saying this is it, we are forgetting about all the bad stuff and everything that we had done and started a new together. It was from that talk that my parents ended up moving in with us and that I quit my job less then a week later to stay home with our kids. Getting to know my husband and having a real talk with him after so long of shutting each other out, or rather me shutting him out and doing my own thing helped me understand what he was thinking and helped me understand what I had been thinking and made everything clear for me.